https://youtube.com/shorts/zw2rhIZmgQE It doesn’t matter what your child’s natural coordination level is. It doesn’t matter what their background is, or whether the dad was an NFL linebacker or the mom played professional volleyball. There are two specific foundational activities that every single child needs to participate in starting as young as possible. These aren’t just seasonal […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/YHLpNiwfqnI It happens to almost every family: one year your child loves school, looks forward to homework, and eagerly opens their backpack. Fast forward just twelve months—whether they are going from age 4 to 5 or age 10 to 11—and suddenly, every single afternoon turns into an exhausting homework battle. Kids don’t come with instruction […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/1OcDJKaO654 When your child is preparing to enter 4K or Kindergarten in Oak Creek, it is an incredibly exciting milestone! As parents, we want to ensure our children enter the classroom equipped with all the tools they need to succeed academically and socially. Naturally, parents focus heavily on early academic basics: counting 1, 2, 3, […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/VbuoeSSHBYY Does your child hide behind your leg whenever they meet someone new? Watching a quiet, introverted child shrink back in social settings or freeze in new environments is tough as a parent. You want them to feel confident, express themselves, and navigate the world without feeling timid or intimidated. At our dojo, there is […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/zWvxPbTJljc Walk into almost any elementary school in Oak Creek, and you’re bound to see massive banners hanging in the hallways proclaiming a “Zero Bullying Policy.” While the intention behind these banners is wonderful, every parent knows the reality: bullying still happens. The biggest flaw with zero-tolerance policies is that they often force the […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/KgUv3G91jK4 When we first opened our doors over 20 years ago, I used to think every parent enrolled their child in karate strictly for physical self-defense. But as the years went on, we started polling parents about their primary goals: Were they looking for self-defense, confidence at school, self-discipline at home, or physical fitness? Back […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/dfmXyiwMM7M As a former elementary school teacher and martial arts school owner who has worked with thousands of local kids over the years, I love discussing the pros and cons of traditional youth sports versus martial arts. If your child has played youth baseball, softball, or soccer in Oak Creek, you have likely run into […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/rs39KY-G7aY Every adult has felt a little clumsy at some point—tripping over a curb, dropping a glass, or missing a step and thinking, “I can’t believe I just did that!” Yet, we often hear parents say with concern, “My child just isn’t very coordinated.” If your child is in single digits (ages 4 to 9), […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/Y5aDyj6UpI0 As a former elementary school teacher who taught 4th and 5th-grade band and orchestra for a decade, I love receiving behavior reports from parents and local teachers across Oak Creek. Over 20 years ago, when we were first opening our martial arts school, I experienced a story firsthand that changed how I viewed […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/FLPLM2Nw1bs If you have been thinking about enrolling your child in martial arts, you might be wondering what actually happens when you step through the doors for the very first time. Parents often call us asking: “What is a child’s first class like?” or “Do I need to wait for a new semester or school […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/FEo_HHQMjvg As parents, we sign our kids up for all kinds of seasonal sports and extracurricular hobbies—soccer, baseball, gymnastics, dance, or music lessons. While those activities offer great recreational value, there are two fundamental physical skills that every child should spend extensive time mastering as they grow up. I have a very strong opinion on […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/Vd3Xb_5a2Rc If you are brand new to the martial arts scene and trying to find the best program for yourself or your child, opening up Google can instantly feel overwhelming. Every school claims to come from the “best of the best” instructors, the ultimate lineage, or the superior style. You see terms like Taekwondo, Karate, […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/7sBPbQ9EptI Does your child hide behind your leg whenever they meet someone new? If you have a quiet, introverted child, watching them shrink back in social settings or hesitate to speak up can be tough as a parent. You want them to feel confident, capable, and equipped to navigate the world without feeling intimidated. Whether […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/1wk6z5nKLcI These days, digital screens are more addicting than a hot cup of coffee in the morning. If you find yourself constantly battling your kids to put down their phones, tablets, or gaming controllers, you are far from alone. To understand why screens have such a tight grip on our kids (and on us adults, […]
https://youtu.be/VVMEp-fntOM Every parent wants two fundamental things for their child: unshakeable self-confidence and the strength to resist negative peer pressure. But in today’s world, dealing with peer pressure looks completely different than it did a generation ago. Back in the day, peer pressure mostly stayed at school. Once the bell rang, home was a safe […]
https://youtu.be/iE44B8PoeLs Around 18 or 19 years ago, when we first opened our martial arts school, I was still working full-time as an elementary school band and orchestra teacher. I remember one particular fourth-grade student who played the trumpet. He was a decent trumpet player, but he struggled with self-discipline and behavior in his regular classroom. […]
https://youtu.be/8RLWc5UNeyk You’ve probably heard the old rumor—whether from a neighbor or a classic martial arts movie—that signing a child up for karate classes automatically teaches them self-discipline. Here is an honest truth from our dojo floor: the punching and kicking in itself does not teach discipline. Simply throwing a punch or kicking a pad doesn’t […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/IKnsm_nxYu4 When school lets out for those three to three-and-a-half months of summer vacation, routine often flies out the window. Without the daily structure of school, kids can quickly fall into the “summer screen slump”—spending hours on YouTube, TikTok, Snapchat, or scrolling endlessly online. While a little relaxation is fine, endless screen saturation leaves […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/SEPBG6qp9VQ We love it when siblings join our dojo together! While families come to us for many different reasons, most parent goals boil down to two core priorities: building confidence at school or instilling self-discipline at home. Often, parents walk through our doors because their household has turned into a daily battleground. Siblings are […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/dDeFeJLgZ6w Watching a quiet, introverted child struggle to find their voice can be tough for any parent. You know how brilliant, kind, and capable they are, but when put into social or high-pressure situations, they retreat into their shell. How do we transform shy kids into powerful, resilient young leaders who know how to speak […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/ao6WQfBvNoc How many times do you find yourself asking your child to clean their room, put away their shoes, or turn off the TV before they actually move? If you feel like you are constantly repeating yourself—asking a second, third, or fourth time—you aren’t alone. At home, boundaries can gradually erode. That “line in the […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/EqQVnoD5RlM If you start calling around or browsing online, you will quickly notice that nearly every martial arts school claims to be “the best.” Everyone boasts about having the highest-ranked instructors, the most historic style, or the most tournament trophies on the wall. While credentials are fine, they don’t tell you what your child’s actual […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/4auJwQxc7Lc You pull up to the curb, your child hops into the backseat after a high-energy training session, buckles their seatbelt, and you start the drive home. As a proud parent, you naturally want to know how their session went, so you ask the classic, go-to question: “Hey, how was class today?” And without fail, […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/23LPgoZZXUc Please, let’s stop it with the participation trophies! Having spent 10 years as an elementary school teacher—instructing fourth and fifth-grade band and orchestra with both a Bachelor’s and a Master’s degree in Education—I distinctly remember when the participation trophy movement started taking over schools about 20 years ago. Back then, the rationale was […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/vJpIXVsfCEw Fitness kickboxing is a massive trend right now, and it isn’t going away anytime soon. It is an absolutely phenomenal workout, an incredible way to sweat, and a fantastic tool for burning calories and relieving stress. However, there is a major hidden problem inside the standard commercial fitness industry. Most group fitness kickboxing classes […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/CMbx3p5foQ8 Will Martial Arts Make My Child Aggressive? The Truth for Oak Creek Parents One of the most common questions parents ask when considering enrolling their child in a martial arts program is: “If I look into karate classes, is it just going to teach my child how to be more aggressive?” It is […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/TbFUY When we first opened our martial arts doors over 20 years ago, maybe one out of every 10 or 15 families mentioned that their child was diagnosed with ADD or ADHD. Today? It feels like nearly three out of every four families are navigating these focus and energy challenges. What used to feel like […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/51tVC-ULgKg We are in the absolute thick of summer right now. The sun is out, the weather is warm, and neighborhoods across the community are filled with children playing outside, riding bikes, and enjoying their hard-earned freedom. But as parents, this beautiful season also brings an underlying responsibility to keep safety at the forefront of […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/I1lIFQW53Fw When parents start researching martial arts programs for their kids, they are quickly bombarded with technical terms: MMA, traditional karate, cage fighting, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, kickboxing, and Taekwondo. It is easy to get bogged down in style names and wonder: Should my child do traditional martial arts, or should they learn modern mixed martial arts […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/WIYu4ZCbOg8 Bringing your child to their very first martial arts class is an exciting milestone, but if your family has no prior experience with training, it is completely normal to have a few questions about what to expect. You might wonder if your child will fit in, how they will handle the structure, or what […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/zsrcbIRc4Io School bullies have been around forever, and the truth is, they aren’t going anywhere. In fact, bullying isn’t just a childhood issue—there are plenty of adult bullies in workplaces and social circles too. While we can’t eliminate every bully in the world, we can completely change how our children respond to them. To bully-proof […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/J2IwZPAkBm8 When you or your child first start out as a martial arts student, it is incredibly common to wonder how much you need to practice at home and what kind of equipment you need to buy. Parents often look at the heavy-duty training floors inside a professional dojo and think they need to […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/Y0FBeHrebIA Walking into a martial arts school for the very first time can be an intimidating experience for any parent. If you have zero background in training, trying to figure out what to look for can feel completely overwhelming. You see signs for Karate, Taekwondo, Jiu-Jitsu, and boxing, and you naturally wonder which one is […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/a9B2jgU7i_Y If you are a parent living in the Oak Creek area and looking into martial arts training for your child, it is completely normal to feel instantly overwhelmed by the sheer volume of styles out there. Between Karate, Taekwondo, Jiu-Jitsu, and Kung Fu, trying to decipher the technical differences can feel like learning a […]
July 2026 Word of the Month – Forgiveness (click the pic to download the July 2026 Word of the Month) If you step into our lobby during the month of July, you’re going to notice a completely different energy on our training floor. Our students will still be executing fast kicks, sharp punches, and conditioning […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/qHqawCpzWFQ If you sit back and quietly audit the conversations happening in your home, you might be shocked by how many times you hear the word no. You ask your child to do something, and you get a flat “I can’t,” “I won’t,” or an outright “no.” As a martial arts professional with over 39 […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/jksFxAX4UHA It’s a story we hear in our lobby week after week. A parent walks in, visibly exhausted, and says, “Kurt, I don’t know what’s going on. It is becoming such a massive battle just to get Johnny out the door and into his karate uniform. He keeps crying and telling me he doesn’t want […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/cjRxR4vrpOA I remember exactly when it started. It was about 20 or 25 years ago, right when I was working as a public school elementary teacher. I spent a decade teaching fourth and fifth-grade band and orchestra—I hold both a Bachelor’s and a Master’s degree in education, and alongside my 39 years in the martial […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/1XSyvRL7qVo Over the last five or six years—and honestly, ever since the disruptions of COVID—I have noticed a massive, troubling shift on our training mats. I call it the “Push-Up Test,” and it highlights a major crisis in childhood resilience. When a child walks into our dojo today, it doesn’t matter if they are 5, […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/fcd1Q-O6MSw As a martial arts professional who has been training and teaching for over 39 years, I hear from worried parents every single week who are trying to navigate the painful reality of schoolyard bullying. When a child comes home crying because they are being teased, poked, or picked on, well-meaning parents often resort to […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/vs3o0B1L4qk It is one of the most common, exhausting complaints parents bring to our lobby: “Kurt, my child completely lacks focus. They can’t sit still for their homework, they drift off in class, and they just need help learning how to pay attention.” But then, those same parents will say something that exposes the real […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/J_diO-arLTM It is one of the most frustrating, exhausting cycles of parenting. You ask your child to do something calmly. They ignore you. You ask a second time, a little firmer. Still, nothing. You ask a third time, and they don’t even look up from what they’re doing. Finally, you lose your temper, blow your […]
https://youtu.be/ydMdEo75xf4 It happens all the time: a child is absolutely dynamite at an activity or sport, yet by the time they reach their teenage years, they throw their hands up and want to quit. You might think this drop-off—which drives up to 70% of kids away from organized activities—is just a natural result of hitting […]
https://youtu.be/UsCwT296umA It is one of the most common, exhausting complaints parents bring to our lobby: “Kurt, my child loves your class once they are on the mat, but getting them out of the house today was an absolute nightmare. They just kept crying that they didn’t ‘feel’ like coming.” This isn’t an isolated problem unique […]
https://youtu.be/WChGyBGhh34 If you spend any time scrolling through TikTok or Facebook these days, you will eventually hit a viral wave of deeply shocking videos. You see videos of high school seniors standing outside their principal’s office, completely astonished and weeping because they just found out they aren’t going to graduate. Then you look at the […]
https://youtu.be/O-yArOBjDaw I remember exactly when the cultural shift started to take root. It was about twenty years ago, early in my career as a public school elementary teacher. All of a sudden, a wave of “participation awards” flooded the educational system. If kids competed in a school spelling bee, a science fair, or a gym […]
https://youtu.be/Cqr_HmhvmNo If you look back 10 or 15 years ago, a standard introductory class at a martial arts school looked a certain way. A seven- or eight-year-old child would walk onto the mats, and if you asked them to drop down and show you what they had, they could easily pop out five to ten […]
https://youtu.be/T4heFIR7ulk Take a look at the modern youth sports scene across Oak Creek right now. There is a quiet, massive epidemic happening right under our noses: child burnout. Every season, thousands of well-meaning parents sign their kids up for traditional leagues—baseball, soccer, football, or softball. They do it because they want their child to build […]
https://youtu.be/xYeaQBi3cgk If you are a parent who didn’t grow up training in the martial arts, shopping for a local school can feel like navigating an entirely different language. We get it over the phone all the time here in Oak Creek: “What is the actual difference between Karate and Taekwondo?” If you don’t know the […]
https://youtu.be/ChEVAFr0O9A When you are a young instructor or a rookie teacher fresh out of college, you hit the ground running thinking you know absolutely everything. You have your degree plaques on the wall, you tie that fresh Black Belt around your waist, and you feel completely invincible. I know I felt that exact same way […]
https://youtu.be/DuUvMTe6rdo Rewind your mind back to the late 1970s or 1980s. If you are old enough to remember, think about what the technology landscape looked like inside a typical household. There was exactly one television in the house. One. It was a massive, heavy piece of wooden console furniture sitting on top of thick shag […]
https://youtu.be/bltIZ_htI14 The transition from a cozy elementary school classroom to the fast-paced world of middle school is one of the most intense structural shifts a child will ever experience in their youth. Suddenly, your fifth grader is no longer anchored to one classroom or a single teacher who manages their entire day. They are thrown […]
https://youtu.be/eXXm88if3ok It is the standard, textbook advice printed in school handbooks and repeated at assemblies across Oak Creek: “If someone is bothering you, just tell a teacher.” While well-intentioned, I am going to ask you to wake up to a very uncomfortable truth: this advice is completely failing our children. Before opening our studio doors, […]
https://youtu.be/iPlmb9Eo-Hs When parents walk through the doors of our Oak Creek dojo and we ask them our standard onboarding question—“Is there anything we should know about your child’s learning or behavior?”—the answer we get at least 50% of the time involves four letters: ADHD. Decades ago, seeing this behavior was rare, maybe affecting one out […]
https://youtu.be/v5UJQ8-b2vc If you grew up in the 1980s or 90s, you probably remember the classic child safety campaigns. We were all taught a very specific, almost cinematic script: a creepy man rolls down a car window and asks, “Hey kid, do you want a piece of candy?” or “Do you want to come look at […]
https://youtu.be/jFb-1TY66Fk “Mom, my stomach hurts.” “Dad, my head is pounding, I don’t think I can go to school today.” It’s a familiar morning routine for many families here in Oak Creek. You look at your child, feel their forehead, and check for a fever—nothing. Their head and stomach are physically fine. So, what is actually […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/FBCRkYHr72Q When kids hear the phrase “summer slide,” they immediately think of the massive water slides down at the local community pool. But for parents, the summer slide represents something far more concerning. It’s the steep developmental and academic drop-off that happens when a child hits summer vacation, unplugs from all responsibilities, and does absolutely […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/3PmDsCQZn9A When you are looking at the financial cost breakdown for your child’s extracurricular activities here in Oak Creek, it is easy to just look at the registration fee or the monthly tuition block. But as a parent of young teenagers myself—a 13-year-old and a 15-year-old—and as a former elementary school teacher with a Master’s […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/Jg2bDz7mB_o About twenty years ago, a massive shift occurred in youth sports and extracurricular activities across the country. The “participation trophy” was born. As a former elementary school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I remember exactly when this movement started flooding into public schools. I distinctly recall asking a fellow educator at the time […]
https://youtu.be/rO_xgTnNcLY It is a script that plays out in households across Oak Creek every single day. You sign your child up for an activity—whether it’s Karate, Taekwondo, baseball, soccer, or wrestling. At first, they are incredibly excited. But a few months in, the enthusiasm vanishes, and suddenly it is a monumental struggle just to get […]
https://youtu.be/jSSj0Kyrj68 The first day of school is a massive milestone for families here in Oak Creek. It only happens once, and it is completely natural for parents to feel a mix of intense excitement and nervous anticipation. When we are driving around town with our four- and five-year-olds in the backseat, we naturally focus on […]
https://youtu.be/8vo3LGR71sk If you scroll through social media or look at the toy aisles in the Oak Creek area, youth activities for young girls are heavily marketed with a specific aesthetic: pink, passive, and polite. Some martial arts schools even invent “pink belts” to appeal to parents of young daughters. At Championship Martial Arts – Oak […]
https://youtu.be/J2MZSHGkQDk When parents walk through the doors of our Oak Creek studio, they are usually looking for more than just physical self-defense. They want their child to develop core life skills—things like confidence, focus, and self-discipline. But a common question lies beneath the surface: How does a skill practiced on a martial arts mat actually […]
https://youtu.be/EISF0O-9lJQ Choosing a martial arts school for your child can feel overwhelming. If you look around the Oak Creek area, you’ll find a variety of styles—Karate, Taekwondo, Jiu-Jitsu, and MMA. Every school has a website with flashy photos, and they all promise the exact same things: focus, discipline, and respect. But as a former elementary […]
https://youtu.be/lgyENb0ApQo If you are a parent raising kids in the Oak Creek area today, you know the daily battle of trying to pry a tablet or a smartphone out of your child’s hands. It feels like a losing war. As a former elementary school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I watched a dramatic shift […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/oavj0PX13uM If you start looking for martial arts classes in Southeast Wisconsin, you’ll quickly run into a “style war.” One school says Taekwondo is the best. Another says Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is the king of self-defense. A third says MMA is the only way to go. As a Master of Education with over a decade of […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/lzvbuwdrHqY When parents think about soccer, basketball, or baseball, they think of “safe” team sports. When they think of martial arts, they often think of contact. But as a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I want to look at the data through a different lens: Predictability vs. Randomness. One of the biggest concerns […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/ga2PEfYdFVw We’ve all seen it: a new family walks into the dojo, and the child is firmly attached to their parent’s leg. I call it “Hiding Behind the Leg Syndrome.” At age two or three, it’s cute. But if that same child is still hiding at age 12, it’s no longer cute—it’s a developmental hurdle […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/ebygJGCd2LA It’s a question as old as The Karate Kid: “If I teach my child how to punch and kick, aren’t they just going to want to punch and kick more?” As a former elementary teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve seen my share of playground scuffles. Usually, these fights happen because children are […]
https://youtu.be/YWujmAdjA6Q I’ll be the first to admit it: sometimes, when I’m on the phone with a parent who is excited about starting their child in karate, I forget to mention the simplest thing—what they should actually wear to their first class. As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I know that new environments […]
https://youtu.be/K6P8Y6c0YRc “When can my child start karate?” It’s the #1 question we get at Championship Martial Arts – Oak Creek. While our official answer is “as young as four,” the deeper truth involves a lesson I learned as a parent, not just as a Master of Education. The “Late Start” Trap I remember when my […]
https://youtu.be/r0ue-MpBkDU Bullying isn’t new. It was around when we were kids, and it was around when our parents were kids. But today, the game has changed. When we were young, home was the “safe zone.” Today, with smartphones, social media, and digital connectivity, bullying can follow a child into their bedroom at 9:00 PM. It […]
https://youtu.be/RFjx-HnhU24 As a former elementary school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I spent a decade watching the “Johnny, focus!” cycle play out. “Johnny, eyes up here. Mary, look at the board.” Even with the most dynamic lesson plan, many children struggle to focus in a traditional classroom. When you add ADHD into the mix, […]
https://youtu.be/V28IBXWLU94 One of the most common questions we hear at Championship Martial Arts – Oak Creek is: “How many years until my child is a Black Belt?” It’s a fair question, but it’s also a loaded one. If you look at ten different karate, taekwondo, or jiu-jitsu schools, you will find ten different answers. As […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/1GCqLyJhnM0 If you’ve been thinking about getting your child started in martial arts, you might have some questions. Will they be overwhelmed? Is it all just punching and kicking? Will it actually help with their behavior at home? As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I know that every school does things differently. […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/Qnspn-6SHOE If your child is constantly winning—first place, gold medal, top of the class—you might think you’re raising a superstar. But as a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’m here to tell you something counterintuitive: If your child is always in first place, you are in the wrong competition. The “Big Fish, Small […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/bg-IA-sgw8Y We’ve all seen it: the trophy shelf filled with plastic awards for “just showing up.” As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve watched the “participation trophy” era take hold, and I’m here to tell you why we need to move past it. If you want your child to be successful in […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/cnUULr_r6Eo Being late to school isn’t just a minor inconvenience—it’s a habit that programs a child for failure. As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve seen how chronic tardiness affects a student’s confidence and their ability to respect professional boundaries later in life. If your child is constantly struggling to get to […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/Tqwik_0Svm4 In a world where titles are often dropped and communication is increasingly casual, some parents wonder why we still insist on “Yes, sir” and “Yes, ma’am” at Championship Martial Arts – Oak Creek. Is it old-fashioned? Perhaps. Is it necessary? Absolutely, unequivocally, yes. The “Respect for the Technique” We aren’t teaching kids how to […]
https://youtu.be/kV6oaxmHt3s If you have a child in the Oak Creek-Franklin School District, you know the “Homework Battle.” It’s the time of day when the house goes from peaceful to a war zone. You ask them to start their math, and suddenly they are the most distracted, lethargic, and argumentative people on the planet. As a […]
https://youtu.be/TpvNXXwog28 As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I see the same pattern everywhere: parents who are so terrified of their child failing that they clear every obstacle out of their way. They want to provide their child with every advantage they didn’t have as a kid. But here is the hard truth: […]
https://youtu.be/Oy-prlzHQac Every parent of a martial artist has heard the words: “I don’t want to go to class today.” It’s frustrating. It makes you wonder if you’re wasting your time and money. You start to think, maybe they aren’t built for this. As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’m here to tell […]
https://youtu.be/WSXTrVYADwM I’ve been a martial arts instructor since the late ’80s, but I also spent over a decade as a public school band and orchestra teacher. Over the last 25 years, I’ve watched the classroom undergo a massive transformation. We went from having one “Computer Lab” that you had to sign up for, to mobile […]
https://youtu.be/CLTWOoQs_Mc As a parent of a 13 and 14-year-old, I know the schedule is relentless. It’s go, go, go. In the Oak Creek-Franklin Joint School District, we take pride in keeping our kids busy because we know that if they aren’t busy with something good, they’ll find something else to fill that time. But as […]
https://youtu.be/44qIyrkrS-s Do you find yourself saying, “Go clean your room” five, six, or seven times before anything actually happens? You aren’t alone. As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve seen this “Nagging Cycle” in almost every household in Oak Creek. The problem isn’t that your child is being “bad.” The problem is […]
https://youtu.be/9r2dmbrg7Dw I’m old enough to remember the leap from Atari to the original Super Mario Brothers. The very first thing you did in that game was walk across the screen and hit a brick with a question mark. Boom. Out popped a mushroom. You ate it, you got big, and you felt powerful. As a […]
https://youtu.be/8kl5az-5LzE As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve seen how the traditional school system handles confidence. Usually, a student works for three or four months toward one major grade or report card. That is a long time for a child to wait for a “win.” If they struggle in month one, they […]
https://youtu.be/L6dEAvPM0HA If your child seems to be in a bad mood the moment they put down their tablet, you aren’t alone. As a former elementary teacher with 10 years in the classroom and a Master’s in Education, I’ve watched the “plugged-in” culture take over. It used to be that kids just watched a few cartoons […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/bth-3hIAhEM Every morning in Oak Creek, hundreds of kids wait for the bus. As a former public school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I spent ten years watching this ritual. I can tell you exactly which kids are at risk of being picked on before they even step foot in the classroom. It’s all […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/YUf2FBaRiiI You want your child to quit their favorite activity? I can tell you exactly how to do it in one easy step: Tell them everything they did wrong the entire way home in the car. I call this the Backseat Coach Sport Killer. As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve seen […]
https://youtu.be/OqqQ_B-sSiM When I was a band and orchestra teacher, I realized something very quickly: I couldn’t teach a child to play the violin if I couldn’t get them to look at me for two seconds. I used to use a 5-second countdown in my classroom—“Eyes on who? Eyes on you!”—just to get them to “dial […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/8-f_y0iSXSU Parents are still telling their kids the same thing we were told in the ’80s: “Just ignore the bully and they’ll go away.” As a former public school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I can tell you that ignoring a problem doesn’t make it disappear—it makes it manifest into something bigger. Bullying isn’t […]
https://youtu.be/FcoygDaDrP8 If you’ve ever watched your child stand in the outfield of a T-ball game, squatting down to pull grass while the play is happening at home plate, you’ve seen the “ADHD Gap” in action. As a former elementary school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I can tell you: it’s not that your child […]
https://youtu.be/PqPkEKwQlSc I remember when the shift started about 20 years ago. I was a young elementary teacher, fresh out of my Master’s program, and suddenly the trend was: everyone gets a medal. My colleagues said we didn’t want to discourage anyone. I remember shaking my head then, and 20 years later, the results are in: […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/2zJwSx4xva4 It starts out “cute.” You’re at a grocery store or a family gathering in Oak Creek, and you tell your toddler to say hello. Instead, they dive behind your leg, peeking out from the safety of your shadow. But here’s the reality check from someone who spent a decade in the classroom: It’s fine […]
https://youtube.com/shorts/ygUX7qdHJPo If you’ve ever watched your child sit motionless for four hours during an intense gaming session, you know one thing for certain: They have focus. The problem starts the second you pull that screen away. Suddenly, 20 minutes on a math worksheet feels like an impossible mountain to climb. As a former teacher with […]
https://youtu.be/ejzIaxZQGOA Back in the ’80s, our parents told us, “Stop playing video games, you’re never going to do that for a living.” Fast forward to today, and not only is competitive gaming a career, but it’s a team sport in our high schools and colleges. While everyone has their niche, there is a physical cost […]
https://youtu.be/ZdjMz9zFBXA It’s the phone call no parent wants to get. Your child’s teacher is on the line reporting “disruptive behavior.” You’re confused because you know your child is a good kid at heart, but in the classroom, something isn’t clicking. As a former elementary school teacher with a Master’s in Education, I’ve been on both […]
https://youtu.be/eiRJYsOcJw8 I remember exactly where I was in 4th grade. I was sitting at a small group of tables in math class. There was a big window at a 45-degree angle to my left, and the chalkboard was straight ahead. Outside that window, the next recess block was starting. I could see the kickball game […]
https://youtu.be/p3AM_iBM5vE As a former teacher with a Master’s in Education, I hear it constantly from parents and teachers in Oak Creek: “Kids today just don’t have the focus we used to have.” But here is the “ruthless” truth: It’s not that kids have changed; it’s that their environment has. I call it the 10x Screen […]
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